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Serve Your Partner


Rather than worry about what you are getting from them.  So many people have a relationship in which they are waiting for their partner to get something about them or give them before they give to their partner.  This sets up a kind of waiting game where both partners are waiting and waiting.  I say act now, show your partner love.  Don’t wait, don’t hold back.  Be the one who invites their partner to a deeper, loving and fulfilling relationship.

And do it every day.  Do not wait, do not keep score but give your fullest open heart without reservation, without doubt.  You receive love only to the degree you give it and you are open to it.  Be open and free.  The freedom in relationship comes from new kind began to occur.   This sets up a kind of waiting game where both partners are waiting and waiting.  I say act now, show your partner love.  Don’t wait, don’t hold back.  Be the one who invites their partner to a deeper, loving and fulfilling relationship. Niagra Falls

Couples Therapy Philosophy

My philosophy when working with couples is that I am not on the side of either of the individuals in the couple but I am on the side of the relationship.  Neither side is taken during therapy but the work is geared toward resolving relationship issues that interfere with having a fulfilling relationship.   My first goal is that everyone in the family or relationship is safe and my second goals always to preserve the relationship unless someone is not safe in the relationship as in the case of Domestic Violence or other issues that cause safety to be the number one issue.  As I work with couples I work toward mutual respect and freedom for each person in the relationship to be who they are. 

To accomplish these goals we increase communication between partners, Identify the issues that are causing dissatisfaction in the relationship, assist the partners in learning to negotiate difficult situations and build mutual respect between them.  We also introduce practices help build a deeper more loving relationship. 

Sometimes during couples work the couple may be asked to do individual work to resolve personal issues that seem to interfere with their ability to have the relationship they want.  Also, they may be offered the opportunity to attend a couples retreat that is designed to take their relationship to deeper levels with powerful group processes, dyad work, and hypnotherapy sessions.

For more information read our Couples Therapy Report